Finding Yourself with Morgan Freeman

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I found this Law of Attraction Coaching online that I felt was worth transcribing and sharing for you!  See below:

Gary Vaynercheck notes the following:  People should fucking stop complaining.  People should figure out who the fuck they are.  People should not listen to America propaganda of fixing the shit they suck at, they should be tripling down what they are good at.  They should be competent in certain areas, but you are not going to become Beyonce.  Or you know like your bone structure is a certain way, you’re not going to solve everything. Your IQ can get a little bit better, but don’t worry about the incremental. Figure out what fucking puts you on fire or what you are halfway decent at.  If you are lucky enough right now to be listening and you are good at what you like, become tunnel fucking vision.  Because there are way too many voices telling you what and how.  And here’s the other thing. And this is the big one John because you have a humungous audience, the biggest thing that I have seen dividends from have the conversation with the person that is holding you back, the reason most people who are listening right now are not doing that thing is they are worried about the opinion of somebody. Usually their mother, usually their father, and the reality is, is that your spouse may be the person holding you back and you have to have that conversation. We have to get to a place where you are doing you.  Because the number one thing that scares the fuck out of me is regret. And you are going to sit there at 72 and say “I wish, I wish, I wish.” And whether that’s money, or spend more time with your family.  There’s a million ways to do this.

“The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.”

Tony Robbins comments as well: Our whole lives are guided moment to moment by the state we are in.  Learning how to change your state, not bullshit, not fake, BUT to go from pissed off, frustrated, freaked out, to back in your center, or creative, or determined, or something that’s going to move you forward that is going to create a better quality life for you and others, that’s a critical skill set.  So moment to moment life is controlled by our states.  You know, you’re in an angry state you are going to respond in a differently state then when you are playful. But what controls those states long term is your model of the world.  Everyone has different goals and dreams, and desires but as I traveled around the world to 100 countries, I started going, holy shit I am seeing the same problems, what’s underneath it.  I began to see that we all have the same needs.  We all have the need for certainty, that we can avoid pain and have some pleasures.  We all need uncertainty or variety or we are dead inside or if we are totally certain we are bored.  It’s not a balance, it’s figuring out what you need more as a person everyone has a different set of values in that area.  Everyone has their different needs!  The need for significance, the need to feel love, to grow and to contribute.  Some people value certainty at the top of their list.  That’s the center of their target.  I don’t want to do anything unless I know it’s going to work.  I don’t want to do anything unless it’s the same. If you are driven to love first, then your actions or going to be different.  The two that of 90% of people on the planet.  Of all these needs, which ones do you focus on 1) being significant, we live in a facebook world, put new filters, make it different than what it really is to make themselves look good.  We live in this false world where significance is bigger than love.

 

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